Feb 06, 2025
Valentine’s Day is coming up, and this day tends to bring up all kinds of feelings. It has a way of making anyone who’s not in a relationship feel like they’re missing out—believe me, I know. As someone who has never had a ‘Valentine,’ I get it. But honestly? I still love Valentine’s Day. It’s supposed to be a day about love, and love isn’t just romantic—it’s in friendships, family, self-care, and the little things that make life lovely. So instead of waiting for someone else to make it special, why not take control and create a day that feels meaningful for you? Here are some ideas to make Valentine’s Day something you actually look forward to, relationship or not.
1. Romanticize Your Own Evening
If couples get to have fancy dinners, why can’t you? Set the mood for yourself. Light some candles, put on a playlist that makes you feel good, and make (or order) a meal you actually enjoy. You don’t need a date to sip wine out of a nice glass or to plate your dinner like you’re at a five-star restaurant.
And if dressing up makes you feel more in the moment, go for it! Wear something that makes you feel confident, even if your plans involve nothing but your couch, a rom-com, and a dessert you wouldn’t normally let yourself splurge on.
2. Gather Your Favorite People for a ‘Galentine’s’ Celebration
Who says Valentine’s Day has to be about couples? Get your best friends together for a Galentine’s gathering—big or small, fancy or chill. It could be a movie night with cozy blankets and themed cocktails, a potluck where everyone brings something pink or red, or even a creative night where you paint, bake, or make vision boards together.
If you want to go the extra mile, write little notes for each friend telling them what you love about them. A small, thoughtful gesture like that can make the day feel extra special, not just for you but for the people in your life who matter most.
3. Do Something Thoughtful for Someone Else
Love isn’t just something you receive—it’s something you give. Valentine’s Day is a great excuse to make someone else’s day unexpectedly better. Send a handwritten letter to a family member, drop off a little treat for a friend, or even just text someone to remind them why you appreciate them.
If you’re feeling extra giving, consider paying it forward in small ways—buy coffee for the person behind you, leave a kind note in a public place, or support a small business by treating yourself to something handmade. Little things like this remind you that love is everywhere, not just in relationships.
4. Indulge in a Creative or Comforting Treat
Make Valentine’s Day feel like a little escape from the everyday. Buy yourself fresh flowers, pick up a book you’ve been wanting to read, or start a creative project just for fun. If you love baking, try making something festive. If you’re into journaling, write about the things you love in life right now.
This is also the perfect time to unplug. Skip the endless Instagram scrolling and be present in the moment. The point is to do something that feels like a treat—not because it’s Valentine’s Day, but because you deserve to enjoy yourself.
5. Redefine What the Day Means to You
At the end of the day, Valentine’s Day is just another day—but it can be an opportunity to make life feel a little more special. Whether that means spending time with friends, pampering yourself, or just making a regular Tuesday feel a little more intentional, it’s up to you.
Love isn’t just found in grand romantic gestures. It’s in the way you care for yourself, the way you show up for the people in your life, and the way you find joy in the little things. So go ahead—make this Valentine’s Day one to actually enjoy, no relationship required.
Hi, I’m Kelsea! I’m a creative at heart who loves a good rainy day, a cup of tea, and finding inspiration in the little things. Hosting is my favorite way to blend my love of design, decorating, and connecting with people. Whether I’m dreaming up cozy ideas for gatherings or working on my next creative project, I’m all about making life feel a little more special.